There is a lot of ugliness in the world. And one might argue that as with beauty, everyone has a different opinion of what is truly ugly. But I think "ugly" is a strong word. Yes, tastes vary and I see that more so here, in Algeria where tastes in clothes, make-up, home decor, even cake designs are generally quite different to mine. I appreciate the work that goes in to a handmade clay pot, a hand-embroidered bedspread or an intricately decorated cake. Even if I find it a bit tacky and not pleasing to my eye, I could never say it's ugly. What is ugly though? Rudeness, oppression, exploitation, disrespect, arrogance. There is a lot of ugliness in the world.
Here in Algeria, when you tell someone that they look nice or "shebba", they reply with "oyoonik shebbeen"or "your eyes are nice/beautiful" meaning: Your eyes are beautiful to have seen the beauty in me. With whatever ugliness there is around us, I think it's nice to seek out beauty in it, be it a situation, a relationship or an incident. Sometimes the beauty just springs up, as if from nowhere.
My "ugly", scrap yarn, crochet! |
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I like the Algerian way of returning a compliment. It's so gracious!
ReplyDeleteI loved the Algerian comment - "oyoonik shebbeen"or "your eyes are nice/beautiful" meaning: Your eyes are beautiful to have seen the beauty in me" Beauty is everyone....even in the so called ugly. And there is no ugly in your scrap yarn blanket :)
ReplyDeleteI wish there were an English equilvalent of "oyoonik shebbeen." The world might get one heartbeat nicer. Love the scrap blanket!
ReplyDeleteBeauty lies in the eyes of the beholder :)
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I love the Algerian reply to a compliment! Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder and it springs up where you least expect it. Sometimes I catch myself looking at something unusal and seeing the beauty in it, like the way the light is hitting a building for example. Love your blanket too! X
ReplyDeleteI love the idea that you there is a kind of beauty in seeing the beauty in things. That response to compliments is perfect!
ReplyDeleteWhat a humble and beautiful way to put it. Graciousness is something that should be taught more in western society. It is something I have been learning more as an adult. Thank you for taking the time to share the something of the way that Algerians talk to each other.
ReplyDeleteagree what a beautiful way to return a compliment...
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful expression. English is straight to the point, Algerian has a beauty to it!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful expression. English is straight to the point, Algerian has a beauty to it!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful expression. English is straight to the point, Algerian has a beauty to it!
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